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The Great Toilet Paper Panic of 2020
How it All Began It didn't start with a supply chain meltdown or a secret government memo declaring "flush twice, hoard thrice." No, it was far more gloriously absurd: a perfect storm of human psychology gone rogue, amplified by the internet's greatest hits and a fear of poopy bottoms. It all kicked off in late February when whispers of a mysterious virus from afar turned into full-blown headlines. People weren't just scared of getting sick, they were terrified of the unknown

Tom
4 days ago8 min read


All I Need to Know About Life I Learned from Pickleball
Stay out of the kitchen — and by kitchen I mean other people’s drama. Step in too early and everything goes pop-up, gets smashed, and everyone blames you. The third shot drop is basically therapy — You have to let go of the desperate urge to smash everything right away. Life works the same way: rush in with aggression and you’re just handing your opponent (or your therapist) an easy put-away. Dinking is 90% of adult conversation — Tiny, soft, infuriatingly polite exchanges

Tom
Feb 142 min read


A Path of Your Own Choosing.
Ever catch yourself halfway through a Netflix binge, mid-scroll on your phone, or, God forbid during your third “quick” coffee run of the day, and suddenly think, “Wait… is this it? Is this the life I signed up for?” No? Just me? Okay, cool, I’ll be over here in the corner having an existential crisis with my oat-milk latte. The truth is, most of us are basically living someone else’s fan fiction of our lives. Maybe it’s your parents’ sequel to their own story (“The Stable Jo

Tom
Feb 113 min read


Am I dreaming?
Excerpt from Cafe of the Heart 2 - The Dark Journey. The overhead sun radiated warmth. I felt its comforting embrace as I soared across the sky. I flew higher and higher as thermals in the warm air made it easy to ascend. I effortlessly flew on for miles and miles, oblivious to the daily requirements of life. The ocean was a portrait of blue below me and presented itself in all its glory. Occasionally whales or dolphins would break the surface, adding to the richness of the v

Tom
Feb 112 min read


Why does the Laughing Buddha Laugh?
In the quiet depths of spiritual traditions, from Zen Buddhism to modern mysticism, there's a recurring theme: the moment of true awakening often erupts not in solemn silence, but in laughter. This isn't the punchline-driven chuckle of a comedy show or the nervous giggle of embarrassment. It's a profound, belly-deep response to the sheer absurdity of our existence, a recognition that the grand search for meaning was, all along, a magnificent cosmic joke. As we peel back the l

Tom
Feb 14 min read


It Just Is - a reflection
I had a thought and wanted to see what Grok had to say. Here is what transpired. My reflection On my path to understanding this great game we call life a phrase has stuck with me, simple, yet profound when understood at a deeper level. It isn't a trite excuse or way to avoid taking things seriously. It resonated deeply with me. The phrase is, It just is . Can you comment on that idea. Grok’s Response "It just is." Those three words can feel almost disarmingly plain at fir

Tom
Jan 309 min read


Believing is Seeing.
Believing Is Seeing: A Philosophical Reflection on Perception and Reality The old adage “seeing is believing” enshrines a commonsense faith in the reliability of our senses: what we observe with our own eyes should anchor our understanding of the world. Yet a deeper inversion, “believing is seeing” reveals a more profound truth about human experience. Our prior convictions do not merely interpret what we encounter, they actively shape what we are capable of perceiving in the

Tom
Jan 24 min read


Breaking Free - a short story
In the bustling suburb of Elmwood, where identical houses lined streets like soldiers in formation, lived a man named John. He was forty-two, with a steady job as an accountant at a mid-sized firm, a mortgage on a three-bedroom home, and a routine that ticked like a metronome. Wake at 6:30, coffee black, commute in traffic, crunch numbers until five, dinner with his wife Sarah and their two kids, TV until bed. John believed this was life, responsible, predictable, required. H

Tom
Dec 29, 20253 min read


Common Stages of Awakening - a reflection
When one truly awakens to the profound nature of existence, recognizing the interconnectedness of all things, the impermanence of forms, and the eternal essence beneath the illusion of separation a deep and unshakable peace descends upon the soul. This awakening dissolves the restless striving of the ego, replacing it with a quiet, radiant contentment that arises not from external circumstances, but from an intimate knowing of life's inherent wholeness and perfection. In this

Tom
Dec 24, 20252 min read


What do fart jokes have to do with spirituality? A short reflection.
I’ve been asked more than once, how can I write about spirituality, enlightenment and truth yet also write humorous, tawdry, rude and potential offensive stories as well and that’s a great question. Having gone through the dark journey of selfhood, searching for meaning and dealing with the big questions I’ve arrived at an understanding of the fundamental nature of our existence. There are no answers, it just is. There is no overriding goal or purpose other than to play a par

Tom
Dec 17, 20252 min read


Religion an Accident of Birth?
How important is your personal belief system and does truth factor into how you view the world? Is truth even important to you? Many people have a strong belief system involving a God, a creation story and after death philosophy. From these systems or religions, evolves a morality that people feel compelled to follow and often manifest guilt when not followed. Just why are people so convinced of the truth of their particular philosophy or religion. What is it that makes them

Tom
Dec 15, 20254 min read


Laughing at the Absurdity of it All.
A light-hearted guide to laughing at the absurdity of it all. I mean what else can you do? Let’s be honest: life is objectively ridiculous, makes no sense, the great mystery, how else could it be described? You spend the first quarter of it learning how to walk and not poop your pants, the middle half chasing money so you can pay strangers to fix the things you bought with that money, and the final stretch trying to remember where you left your glasses, complaining about your

Tom
Dec 14, 20253 min read


The Quiet Wisdom of Marcus Aurelius
Marcus Aurelius (121–180 AD) was Roman Emperor from 161 to 180 AD and the last of the “Five Good Emperors,” a period widely regarded as the high point of the Roman Empire. Known as the “Philosopher-King,” he is one of history’s most famous Stoics. While ruling during almost constant warfare (on the northern frontiers), a devastating plague (the Antonine Plague that killed millions), and serious internal rebellions, he wrote (in Greek) a private journal we now call Meditations

Tom
Dec 9, 20253 min read


The Eternal Lesson of Being Wrong
The cosmos stretches out in an immensity that defies our finite human minds, rendering much of it not just unknown, but fundamentally inscrutable to us. We, as a species, are perpetually caught off guard by fresh revelations and groundbreaking insights that reshape our worldview, yet we cling stubbornly to outdated convictions, reluctant to let them go even in the face of compelling evidence. It's a humbling truth: the moment you convince yourself of an absolute certainty abo

Tom
Dec 7, 20253 min read


The Eternal Riddle
At the core of human existence lies a single, ancient triad of questions, three whispers that have haunted every mind capable of self-reflection: Who am I? Where did I come from? Where am I going? These are not idle curiosities. They are the primal riddle, the uninvited guest that arrives the moment a child first senses the “I” behind their eyes and never truly leaves. No one escapes them. They wait patiently in the background of every life, sometimes silent for decades, some

Tom
Nov 25, 20253 min read


God is Love - a short story.
The classroom smelled of chalk dust and lemon polish, but beneath it clung the metallic tang of fear. Eight-year-old Timothy sat rigid in the third row, knuckles white around his pencil. Sister Agnes loomed at the blackboard, veil stark as a blade, scrawling in furious loops: GOD IS LOVE . Timothy’s hand trembled as it rose. “Timothy?” Her voice cut like a ruler across knuckles. “Sister…” His throat clicked. “Yesterday, Jericho. God said kill everyone . Men. Women. Little kid

Tom
Nov 5, 20254 min read


Pickleball, definitely not an obsession - a short story.
Meet Doug "Dinkmaster" Thompson, a 42-year-old accountant who swears pickleball is just a game . "Obsession? Pfft," he'd scoff, while etching his latest serve stats into the family fridge with a Sharpie. "It's a lifestyle choice, like breathing, but with paddles!" It started innocently enough. Doug's friends noticed when he showed up to poker night with a neon-green paddle strapped to his back like a samurai sword. "Guys, check this out!" he'd beam, slamming a bag of mini-don

Tom
Oct 20, 20253 min read


A closer look at Mystical Experience
Mysticism, at its core, represents one of the most profound dimensions of human consciousness, a gateway to experiences that transcend the ordinary, fostering a deep sense of wonder, connection, and inner transformation. I've encountered such moments myself, where the boundaries of self dissolve into a vast, unifying awareness, and I eagerly anticipate more of them in the future. These encounters can be life-altering, offering glimpses of peace, ecstasy, or enlightenment that

Tom
Oct 18, 20254 min read


Master Po and the Chihuahua - origin story
Tucked in the misty mountains, where the air smelled of pine, incense, and enlightenment, Master Po held court in a creaky old monastery...

Tom
Oct 9, 20254 min read


Master Po meets Lila's friend - a short story
Lila, a young woman with a newfound spring in her step, walked confidently up the stone path to Master Po’s temple, her sneakers scuffing...

Tom
Oct 8, 20254 min read
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